Love is on everybody’s mind. I sometimes get the impression that everything evolves around it. Every 3rd T.V channel will have something on, that discusses romance. Right around the corner is the next love series like the O.C. Even the history channel will talk about some queens medieval affair. We see the same trend on Amazon. You can find a lot of titles that promise advice on how to get over an ex or even how to get your ex boyfriend back. In magazines celebrities are hunted down by paparazzi. They publish information about celebrity breakups and cheating.



We are clearly obsessed by the subject and everything that’s related to it.



Even though it sounds bad, I think it’s a good thing. The topic should be discussed more in industrialized countries like The Russian federation and Netherlands. These countries see a diminishing population. In many of those countries people think more about their work and how they will succeed in life. While in reality success is often a matter of having a good family. Pure things such as love are replaced by values such as greed. There are still plenty of love shows and other romantic media. Alas, they show scenes of drama and tragedy, we don’t see enough family happiness and unity. Breakups and unfaithful lovers are put on the spot light, while a simple happy family is considered boring and stays in the background. Same goes for books that give you the latest advice on how to dump someone or how to get over being dumped. Titles that talk about how to get your ex boyfriend back are rare and far between. Books that make you fight for your love and not give up should be more prevalent. When was the last time you saw a best seller like that?



In some states there are a divorce rates of 40%. When will it end? Those are mind blowing statistics! Did people stop trying to fix their problems and simply abandon ship? May be they should stick around and work out the differences instead. If a husband finds out that his wife is cheating he might jump the boat but… There must be a reason for this infidelity. May be it was caused by a grave mistake on the part of the husband? Could this be a one time thing, that can be prevented if the couple establishes a better spiritual connection? In many instances it is a small difference that makes a big change. Many estranged women say that they left because they weren’t getting any acknowledgment.



So let’s appreciate each other more. Try to be more selfless and your partner will do the same. Let’s be understanding and patient towards one another. Let’s choose love instead of hate. For we shall pass here but once.

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- Robert Sinclair